"It seems that regular, non escort women in the dating world don't even bother screening a guy to make sure he is not an ax murderer before heading out to dinner with him" Guest Author Mrs. Robinson
Outside of my escort business, I’ve hardly dated much in years. As a single parent, I have dedicated myself to raising my daughter. I never brought men into my home nor did I bring the few men who I dated around my daughter. I have been committed to maintaining a stable environment for my child and making a solid living. Now that my daughter has grown up and moved out I have been thinking about dating again.
I wonder what other companions think of normal dating websites
Recently, I joined a popular dating site just looking to meet someone new, not trying to pick up clients. I posted a normal profile. Even though my profile states that I am not willing to meet with anyone until I get to know them online, 99% of the responses were 1 liners wanting to meet immediately for coffee, drinks or dinner. They were all evasive and wouldn’t engage in simple conversation while all claiming to want long term relationships.
Even though my profile said I wasn't willing to date anyone that made less than 100 k a year, owned a home and had no debt the emails poured in, 225 within the first hour. I was at it for over 8 hours before I gave up and I wasn't even looking at their pictures anymore, just reading the emails and profiles before responding.
It seems that regular, non escort women in the dating world don't even bother screening a guy to make sure he is not an ax murderer before heading out to dinner with him. Do these women have no standards? As an escort, I screen all clients with whom I intend to meet. I do background checks and verify the man’s ID when we meet. Most importantly, I always let a friend know where I am going, with whom I am meeting and that I will touch base with them upon my return to ensure my personal safety.
They provide their handle and first name. They may tell you what they do for a living and then either want to chat or have you call them for an immediate meet up.
I don't understand why any woman would want to date a man who expects her to work and then come home to a second shift of taking care of him, the house and stroking his ego. These men act like they are entitled and that a man providing for a woman is a new concept.
Perhaps I am not ready to venture out into today's real dating world. But at least as an escort, I don't have to pick up their dirty socks in the morning.
Written by Geisha Diaries Guest Author & Companion, Mrs. Robinson