" A lot of young women find having a Sugar Daddy to be an enriching experience. They get to be free spirits, have their sexual desires quenched and are shown experiences that broaden their horizons" Written by John Doe, Sugar Daddy
I have been asked this question many times. I was fortunate to become very wealthy at an early age. Though my family was from Beverly Hills, California and had money, they did not have the massive wealth for which Beverly Hills is known, or that I have been able to create in my life. I attended Beverly Hills High School and continued on to earn a Bachelors and a Masters degree. I had lots of money to spend on toys like cars, boats, homes and vacations. It wasn't until my kids finally reached college age that I noticed some of the young women hanging around the house flirting with me.
One day a young lady was hanging out at the pool and came inside and asked if she could speak with me. I said sure and she asked me for a loan to pay for college. I was caught off guard because this was the first time that someone my kid’s age approached me for money. I was accustomed to this from adults. She said that her education was very important to her and that she would do anything if I helped her out. I asked if she was working and she said yes. I knew that the amount of money she made would not be sufficient to pay me back. I told her I needed to think about it. She said ok and left me her pager number (there were no cell phones back then). I paged her one day soon after. When she returned my call, I explained to her that I would give her the money but that she didn’t have to pay me back. She was speechless. I thought I lost her when finally she spoke. She implied that there might be a different way in which she could pay me back. That’s how this all started.
Since I am married, people want to know why I am a Sugar Daddy. They always assume it has something to do with my wife. Becoming a Sugar Daddy had nothing to do with my wife in the beginning. At first, I just loved the attention and the game of getting a sexy young woman to become my lover. Spoiling was easy - paying for rent, cars, shopping sprees, vacations, none of which ever impacted my life or my wealth but it made it a lot easier to seduce women.
As to the deceit, well that is a different story. At first I would get pangs of guilt after I was unfaithful to my wife. Then one day after talking to my best friend about it I realized that my infidelity with these Sugar Babies was heightening my passion, sexual appetite and desire in every area of my life. While lots of men go home and can’t stand their nagging wife, I would go home and ravish her. Sex always puts a man in a great mood, if the sex is good. And let me tell you, sex with beautiful, young women is always good!
Do I love my wife? Yes, I do. Is there passion in our relationship? Not as much as there used to be. As my wife and I have gotten older, her sexual desires have diminished. She is more interested in being a grand mother than being my lover. So I enjoy life with her more as a best friend. My Sugar Baby is the woman who lights my fire. My wife is more of a confidant, where my Sugar Baby is my muse and temptress. I don't love my Sugar Baby the same way I love my wife but I care about her. Am I interested in having a life with her, having children and being a husband to her? Not at all.
A lot of young women find having a Sugar Daddy to be an enriching experience. They get to be free spirits, have their sexual desires quenched and are shown experiences that broaden their horizons. I have been a Sugar Daddy on and off for more than 20 plus years and would do it all over again.
Written by John Doe, Sugar Daddy & Guest Author for Geisha Diaries