First and foremost, pay close attention to your client’s desires from the initial exchange, whether by phone, text, email or booking form. Written by Victoria Krush

Gauge your response by listening for terms of endearment, tone of voice and pattern of breathe. The insight gained will serve as the crest from which you will navigate the entire erotic journey.

Religiously primp and pamper yourself before every session

Being attentive and well rested, not stressed, is paramount. Do not for a second neglect your hygienic duties such as intimate grooming, perfectly styled hair, moist skin and freshly polished or buffed nails. Your body is your product in the most critical way. If you are not prepared and gathered physically, mentally and spiritually, you cannot effectively deliver the love, comfort, intimacy, or fantasy that clients desire from you in the first place.

Ensure that the entire presentation goes well from the initial meeting moment: wear your favorite perfume and best lingerie, set a little candlelight and play sexy music that sends waves up the spine. Being at your best will ease any anxiety that can arise from a session and create a platform for a positive encounter.

Bait and switch ranks among the highest of client complaints

and will prove fatal to your business. Do not be one of those ladies who falsifies her appearance by posting photos that belong to someone else. More than showing a shady display of character, it demonstrates very poor taste by choosing to lie and deceive your client from the moment they lay eyes upon you. If it is discretion that concerns you, bait and switch is not the way to go. Blurring or not showing your face in photos will accomplish that purpose.

If that client feels that he has been conned into an appointment by way of false photos, you are doomed

Your client has made a conscientious decision to expose his identity by contacting you, providing other provider or work references and revealing personal, confidential information. Throughout history to present, engaging the services of a geisha, courtesan, escort or call girl represented a symbol of status, a habit exclusive to men of a higher stature. When the appointment is based upon a foundation of deceit, dangerous or even volatile repercussions could ensue. Communication resources such as review forums present a double edged sword. Clients can and will inform comrades of detailed encounters with providers, both negative and positive. Some are not so nice and can spread like wildfire.

Counting stacks of twenties in the face of your client is a sure way to spoil the experience and your image

However, sweetly requesting that your gift be placed in the restroom upon arrival and that no mention be made of it is a savory way of enhancing the mood. Open gift exchange taints the fantasy and is just plain tacky. Most clients are seeking something when they contact you. As a provider it is your duty to delicately and strategically dissect those secrets during your initial communication and booking correspondence. In doing so, you are preparing for a session during which you will be transformed into playmate, friend, counselor, muse, fantasy, soul mate or an object of exclusive desire.

Your client inherently knows within the first five minutes of face-to-face contact if he will see you again

If he does not return, allowing both of you to reap the benefits of an ongoing tryst, then ultimately, it is you who has failed to please.

 Written by Victoria Krush, Ultimate Courtesan & Guest Author for Geisha Diaries